Mistakes

#1 Making

It's not difficult to make mistakes, that is why everybody makes them. Most of the time we make mistakes because of a low confidence. If you doubt your own decisions you won't be able to make the right choices. Sometimes we know we are going to make a mistake, but there is something that dazzled us. The most common things that dazzle us are naivity, desperation and our curiosity for the unknown. The most recurring mistakes are mistakes in love, friendship or career. We all know that making mistakes is easy, but dealing with them is a lot harder...

#2 Dealing

If you made a mistake, you should learn to deal with it. Don't try to make it right, in most cases you can't make it right. Once a mistake is made there is no turning back. You can try to make it a little better, but the damage will never be fully restored. The only thing you can do is prevent by taking your decisions not too impulsive. Just deal with it and learn a lesson from the mistakes you make.

#3 Learning

Learning from your mistakes is the most important in the proces, if you don't learn from your mistakes you will make the same mistakes over and over again. Remind that your destination is not the only thing that matters, the road that takes you to that destination is more important. Because if you don't focus on that road you can't see the mistakes that you've made or will make. You might reach your destination, but it will have been more difficult than for someone who has focused on the road.

#4 Forgetting

You should forget the mistakes that you've made, but you must remind the lessons that you have learned from it! Forgetting is important, because otherwise you'll keep thinking about the mistakes and you will feel bad about it. You must see the positive sides of the mistakes that you've made and appreciate the chances you get to learn from them. Forget the mistakes, they are history, but the lessons you learned are the future!

#5 My Story

I have made a lot of mistakes in terms of trust, love, friendship, family and school. I Always felt like a failure, but suddenly I got the picture. Everybody makes mistakes. It's sometimes hard to deal with it, but most of the time we make a bigger problem of it. We start to overact and think we have made the biggest mistake ever, but at the end you realize you say those words every time you make a mistake. So those words doesn't really make sence. Remember that it can always be better, but it can also be worst. Just make the mistake, deal with it, learn from it and forget it, but remember the lesson behind it.

-Ruben W

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Comments: 4
  • #1

    Judy Smith (Monday, 25 July 2016 15:42)

    You've laid out a healthy progression for dealing with choices we've made - good work.

  • #2

    Subhadrika Sen (Monday, 25 July 2016 15:51)

    I can absolutely relate to this post. it is so very well written. I mean we all make mistakes. Its a part of life. But I think the most important part is to overcome the mistakes and not get stuck with it .

  • #3

    Anna Nuttall (Monday, 25 July 2016 19:54)

    A very well written post, learning from your mistake is the biggest lesson in life. xx

  • #4

    joleisa.com (Monday, 25 July 2016 22:14)

    I enjoyed reading this. It's so real and reflects most of us and how we should be